Tuesday, January 08, 2013

The Book Bug: Make It Happen Blog Tour


MY BOOK BLOG TOUR STARTS TOMORROW!!!!

Go over to the Book Bug and see what is coming ahead in the tour. The Book Bug: Make It Happen Blog Tour.

Here is the schedule. There are a lot of freebies, giveaways, and such!


Blog Tour Schedule

January 8: The Book Bug - Kickoff & Giveaway
January 8: Make It Happen - Kickoff & Giveaway
January 9: I Love to Read and Review Books :) - Review & Giveaway
January 10: Ryan Hunter - Author Guest Post & Giveaway
January 11: Marcus Lane - Review & Giveaway
January 12: I Am A Reader, Not A Writer - Author Interview & Giveaway
January 14: The Book Bug - Excerpt & Giveaway
January 17: A. L. Sowards - Author Interview & Giveaway
January 18: Anna Jones Buttimore - Review & Giveaway
January 19: Why Not? Because I Said So! - Review & Author Guest Post
January 19: LDS Women's Book Review - Review & Author Guest Post
January 20: The Book Bug - Author Interview & Giveaway
January 21: Geo Librarian - Review, Author Interview, & Giveaway
January 21: LDS & Lovin' It - Review, Author Interview, & Giveaway
January 22: Jinky Is Reading - Review & Giveaway
January 23: Literary Time Out - Author Guest Post & Giveaway
January 24: Make It Happen - Book Spotlight & Giveaway
January 25: Segullah - Review & Giveaway
January 29: The Book Bug - Review & Giveaway


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Saturday, December 22, 2012

The Saxophone


My favorite Christmas gift this year was given to me by my dad before I even got home...

The Back Story: My grandpa, Leland Grant "Gus" Shields, use to play his saxophone in a dance band at BYU called the Y's Men Band. I loved imagining my grandpa playing his sax in that band and to this day still listen to his recordings. I loved my grandpa with all my heart and because of his love of jazz, then my dad's love of jazz, I too fell in love with jazz at a young age.  

One day my aunt was telling me about the time her dad (my grandpa) had played the saxophone at her wedding and I thought that was awesome. So I asked my dad to play the saxophone at my wedding.  This was so many years ago that I barely remembered asking my dad.

Years ago my dad found his dad's sax lying around collecting dust in the basement of his home and asked his mom if he could have it. She said yes so my dad took it home and it began to collect dust for a years at his house. My dad eventually bought a case off craigslist for the saxophone but the mouthpiece was missing and the sax needed a lot of work, if anyone was ever going to play it again.

Leland Grant "Gus" Shields' Saxophone

Then one day my dad began an unlikely friendship with a man, Don Degrady, that used to play in the Y's Men Band at BYU with my grandpa. Don gave my dad a beautiful mouthpiece for my grandpa's sax and told my dad of a wonderful place in Oakland, CA where they could fix up my grandpa's saxophone. So my dad sent it to that store.

Mouth piece given by Don  DeGrady

The Christmas Story: So a few days ago my dad drove to Oakland early to pick up my grandpa's saxophone and then to pick me up from the airport to come home for Christmas. On the way home he told me the backstory of my grandpa's saxophone. He also told me that he had been praying for me to find a good man and get married but that he felt like he needed to do his part. So he decided to get the saxophone all ready to play, picked out a song, and is going to practice and prepare to play at my wedding!

I love my dad and LOVE his faith!

Monday, November 12, 2012

Spewing Poison


I have always loved the simple way Dr. Seuss packs a punch with very few words. If could, for this post,  I would change the word STEP in the above quote to SPEAK.

 I have been thinking a lot about the power of spoken words.  Recently, as I read my Facebook wall I was  embarrassed by many of the comments my friends had written.  It started to really bother me as I am a big fan of people speaking their peace and getting things out of their heads and hearts--so I was wondering why it was bothering me so much...

I was talking to my roommate one night and I sharing with her my thought on the subject  and I said, "It's like people are just spewing their poison all over everyone."  THAT WAS IT!  It wasn't that people were feeling or even wanting to share their feelings it was they way in which they were doing it. 

It's okay to have poison inside you.  It's okay to want to share it, get rid of it, or even to spew it. What is not okay is just spewing your poison on anyone that will listen.  Not everyone is ready to handle your poison.  And not everyone realizes that might just be your feelings IN THAT MOMENT.


As a therapist I encourage my clients to let everything out, let go of anger, hurt, pain, betrayal, regret--their poisons.  I hope to create a safe place for them to do this, however, so they don't have to vent out all their negative feelings to their family, friends, coworkers etc.

Being a safe place for someone to share their unspeakable things is a gift. Finding people in your life with whom you can share your poisons is a gift.  Just be careful because your words have great staying power.  It is much easier to forgive your words than it is to forget them.

Sunday, November 11, 2012

I'm Thankful For...

November 9 & 10th, 2012

I recently wrote this blog post and I'm grateful for so many things in it that I'm counting it for 2 days!


I am big fan of making things happen in my life and in the lives of others. 

Do you have non-profit you want to start or are a part of and you need funding? Do you a group gift you want to people to pay into? Do you have wicked awesome ideas but don't know how to get them out of your head and into production? Do you have some money you want to invest in someone else (micro loan) and help them change their lives?


If so, and if you are just curious, please look just a few of the incredible resources there are out there to help you make things happen in your life and make your dreams come true!




Crowd tilt
We all love doing things as a group. Like with a lot of experiences, it's not what you do – it’s the people you do it with that matters more.
At Crowdtilt, we’re trying to make it easier for groups to do things together. Whether it’s a party-bus to the next Phish show or pooling money for a cause you know your close friends are passionate about – we just want to make that process of grouping those funds as easy as possible.
(from the About section on the website)


Start Some Good

StartSomeGood empowers people from around the world to become social innovators. By connecting social entrepreneurs with the financial and intellectual capital they need to transform an idea for improving the world into a reality, together we can turn ideas into action and impact.
There are no shortage of problems in the world, and no shortage of people with ideas to address them, yet they lack the resources that they need to get started. StartSomeGood provides social entrepreneurs with a platform to raise start-up funds and build a community of supporters -- all in a fun, engaging and community-driven way. Our site taps into the power of the crowd, allowing social entrepreneurs to ask for small amounts of money from supporters from around the world, and gives them the tools to update their supporters, provide unique rewards in exchange for support and run multiple campaigns over time.
We’ve taken the crowdfunding model -- which is growing in popularity world-wide -- and customized it to reflect the unique needs of social entrepreneurs.
If you are visiting for the first time, we know you will find many worthwhile initiatives and inspiring changemakers here. We hope you will choose to chip in to help make these important ventures start and thrive, to help those who are helping our world. And then we hope you think about what your community needs, and the good you might start yourself. We are here to help you turn your ideas into action and impact.
Creating a more sustainable, equal and just future will take all of us.
How will you StartSomeGood? 
(from the About/Overview section on the website)

Crowdtap


The more you participate 
the more you earn,
 gaining you status, 
privileges and cold, 
hard gift-cards.
 
All of your participations on Crowdtap will help make donations to your selected charity.
 
Brands want your opinions and they want you to tell others. What better way than to give you their products.

(from website front)

razoo

What Can I Do on Razoo?

Donate

Search for and donate to 1 million officially registered nonprofit organizations.

Fundraise

Set up a fundraiser for a charity of your choice. There are no setup fees and no monthly subscription fees.

Collaborate

Raise money as a team on Razoo. Or simply help others spread the word about their cause. 
(from the Learn More section on website)
kickstarter

What's Kickstarter?

  1. Kickstarter is a funding platform for creative projects. Everything from films, games, and music to art, design, and technology. Kickstarter is full of ambitious, innovative, and imaginative projects that are brought to life through the direct support of others.
    Since our launch on April 28, 2009, over $350 million has been pledged by more than 2.5 million people, funding more than 30,000 creative projects. If you like stats, there's lots more here.
  2. Thousands of creative projects are funding on Kickstarter at any given moment. Each project is independently created and crafted by the person behind it. The filmmakers, musicians, artists, and designers you see on Kickstarter have complete control and responsibility over their projects. They spend weeks building their project pages, shooting their videos, and brainstorming what rewards to offer backers. When they're ready, creators launch their project and share it with their community.
    Every project creator sets their project's funding goal and deadline. If people like the project, they can pledge money to make it happen. If the project succeeds in reaching its funding goal, all backers' credit cards are charged when time expires. If the project falls short, no one is charged. Funding on Kickstarter is all-or-nothing.
    (from the What's Kickstarter page on the website)

Oxfam

Oxfam is an international confederation of 17 organizations networked together in more than 90 countries, as part of a global movement for change, to build a future free from the injustice of poverty.

We work directly with communities and we seek to influence the powerful to ensure that poor people can improve their lives and livelihoods and have a say in decisions that affect them.

What we do
Find out how we work with others to end poverty and injustice, from campaigning to responding to emergencies.

Why we do it
We believe that respect for human rights will help lift people out of poverty.

Our history
Find out more about Oxfam.
We strive to do what we say we will do. Read about our core values and operating principles against which we measure ourselves.
Until 2012, our work to achieve a just world without poverty will be guided by our Strategic Plan, "Demanding Justice."

(from the About Us section on the website)


Quirky

For centuries, becoming an “inventor” has been a hard gig to crack. Complexities relating to financing, engineering, distribution, and legalities have stood in the way of brilliant people executing on their great ideas.
Since launching in 2009, Quirky has rapidly changed the way the world thinks about product development.
We bring two brand new consumer products to market each week, by enabling a fluid conversation between a global community and Quirky's expert product design staff.
The world influences our business in real-time, and we share our revenue directly with the people who helped us make successful decisions.
(from the About Us section on the website)

causevox

OUR MISSION

For years, fundraising platforms stood between nonprofit and their donors. Non-profits had to send their donors to someone else’s site. We take a different approach. CauseVox brings your fundraising back to your own site. Because your story is unlike any others, your fundraising site should be unique too. 

We have one purpose in mind: to tell your stories beautifully online, inspiring support & donations towards your cause. We do this through our simple, yet powerful, tools. 

(from the About Us section on the website)


firstgiving


Since FirstGiving was founded over a decade ago, our organization has been dedicated to one purpose: empowering passionate nonprofit supporters to raise more money than they ever thought possible for the causes they care about.

We partner with nonprofit organizations to allow them to plan, execute, and measure successful online fundraising campaigns. For individual fundraisers, we aim to make the process simple, effective, and even fun!

Above all, we want nonprofit and fundraisers alike to meet and exceed their goals of raising money for important causes, building awareness, and expanding the world of giving.

(From the About Us/Overview section of the website)

Indiegogo

Kiva
We are a non-profit organization with a mission to connect people through lending to alleviate poverty. Leveraging the internet and a worldwide network of microfinance institutions, Kiva lets individuals lend as little as $25 to help create opportunity around the world. Learn more about how it works.
Since Kiva was founded in 2005:
  • 844,334 Kiva lenders
  • $370,136,225in loans
  • 98.97% Repayment rate
We work with:
  • 168 Field Partners
  • 450 volunteers around the world
  • 66 different countries

  • (found in About section on website)












 I hope I introduced some new wicked awesome fundraising/make it happen/invention-making/fund a project/friend, etc websites to you. I also hope it inspires you some kind of action.

Thursday, November 08, 2012

I'm Thankful For...

I need to make up for lost days..

November 6, 2012
Eyelashes

If you think about it eyelashes are amazing
They protect my eyes
I get to paint them with colors (I love my blue & green mascara)
I knew a girl whose eyelashes fell out and she had to use Vaseline to protect her eyes
They make my face prettier
Long ones remind me of my brother Grant b/c he had such beautiful long lashes


November 7, 2012
Traveling

This small will not do my love for travel justice but I hope my traveling does
because I learn about new people and cultures
because it stretches me out of my comfort zone
because I am always more grateful to come home


November 8, 2012
Technology

I recently got a smart phone and I'm trying to catch up
but who am I kidding I'm a minimalist and I will never really use my smart phone to it's capabilities just like I use my laptop as a word processor
While I do love real time communication I do so love hulu, cellphones, computers, dishwashers, cars, and so much more
And yes, I really want to touch glass and use it like a computer one day

Sunday, November 04, 2012

I'm Thankful for...



because I can't remember ever not wanting to write
because I started a journal when I was 9 y.o.
because it helps me see the world in a different light
I am grateful for writing because it helps me get things out of my heart & head



November is National Novel Writing Month
It's a writer thing
It's intense, crazy, exhilarating,  & challenging
I am grateful for all my writing friends (& family)
I love all my new author friends
I enjoy my writing groups
I am grateful for such an incredible desire and passion to WRITE!!!

Saturday, November 03, 2012

I'm Thankful For...


Brigham Young University 1998-2004 

Arizona State University  2008-2010
Cosmo

Sparky
I'm extremely grateful for my EDUCATION!!

Some say I went from the Lord's University to the Devil's and I loved every minute of both! I recognize that I am very blessed to be in a country where I can get educated and from a family that not only supports education but also lives it.

 My father has a PhD in Sociology (dad), BA in Early Education (mom), Masters of Social Work (me), PhD in Social Cultural Anthropology (African Studies emphasis) (chelsea), PhD candidate in Hispanic Studies (emphasis in film and literature) (mike, chelsea's husband), BA in Graphic Design (dani), BA in Biology (kevin, dani's husband), BA candidate in Psychology (kati), and working on BA (ali).

I can't say I loved how hard I had to work in school but I can, without any hesitation say I LOVE learning!

Friday, November 02, 2012

I'm Thankful For...


November 2, 2012

because there was this time that I didn't have a TV
because it is a significant part of my self care plan
because it is one of my escape mechanisms
because I can watch my favorite "time wasters" whenever I want
because it is my best excuse for being lazy and not going out
because sometimes I need to live vicariously

I'm Thankful For...


November 1, 2012


patience helped me get my job at ANASAZI
patience helped me to write a book and see it through it's publishing (6 years total)
patience helped me be happy & single for many years
patience helped me to better understand my relationship with my Creator
patience helped me get through grad school
patience helped me learn the piano
patience is constantly my companion during hard therapy session with my clients
patience pushes me to look inward at the end of a long day
patience often whispers to me to hold on a little longer when I'm way beyond what I think I can do
patience that kicks me in the but
The fact that I am terrible at being patient with myself but God continues to give me opportunities to do better!

Monday, October 15, 2012

Instant & Urgent


I recently got a Smart Phone—the iphone 4 to be exact. I got it for free since Apple just released the iphone 5. I pretty sure I'm one of the last people on the earth to graduate to a Smart Phone. I was holding out for a lot of reason but mostly for the reasons of this post.

I am going to confess to a few outrageous things: 1. I don't actually liked to be reached at all times of the day 2. I don't like my phone to rule my life 3. I believe that people come before electronics ALWAYS 4. Everything is NOT urgent 5. Just because you can reach me instantly doesn't mean I am always available.


 I have an old heart. I currently own a typewriter & a record player that are both 2x older (or more) than me. I love them. So you can imagine how a Smart Phone makes me feel. I noticed I am more anxious. I feel like I can't hide from anyone. I feel the urgency that seems to exist when you carry a Smart Phone that anyone can get a hold of you any time and that everything needs to be responded to immediately.

In this fashion urgency has lost is flavor a bit. If everything needs be instant and urgent then how does anyone know the difference?
Found HERE
I am a people person. I have always been this way. Therefore, in my world I place people over just about anything else. When I make time for people I focus on them—not my phone. I believe in voice mail, the silence function, text messages, and anything else that makes it possible for me to respond to people's needs in a time that makes sense and when I actually have time for them.

I can't you how many times someone has called me and couldn't actually talk to me. They were multitasking or trying to do too many things at once. A part of me just laughs as they called me. I didn't call them. They could've waited until they had the time or the place to actually talk to me.

Also, it baffles me a bit that people get so upset (sometimes even angry) when I don't respond immediately to them either via email, text, or mobile.  Yes, I periodically turn off my phone. Yes, I put my phone on silence most of the work day. Yes, I decline calls when I'm with people, eating, driving, talking to my family, friends, or roommates. Yes, I sometimes don't get to my emails immediately. Yes, sometimes I do an electronic fast where I don't use any electronics. And, yes, I am perfectly okay.


Found this HERE

I do however, understand the importance of returning email, vm, texts, etc. I understand that when you leave me a message I should respond in a timely manner. I also understand that if I want to maintain friendships, relationships, etc that I need to make an effort to use theses shiny modern gadgets to stay in touch. I am not afraid of technology but I do worry about what it is doing to people.

I DARE you to turn off your phone more, to never use it on a date (unless you absolutely need it or for an emergency), to focus more on people rather than multi tasking, to not use your phone in the car (even on your commute), to close your laptop, turn off itunes, take your earphone out, turn off your ipod, turn off the tv, and for go out and live more of you life unplugged!

I love my gadgets, every single one, and don't condone them, but when they become more important than the people using them—that worries me.

Thursday, October 11, 2012

Shabby Apple Incredible Giveaway




SHABBY APPLE is doing this incredible giveaway right now! As most of you know I'm not a big fan of wearing dresses—but if I could afford them I would buy a number of dresses from Shabby Apple.

They are giving someone a dress a month (of their choice) for a year for FREE!  I can't believe it! This is in thanks to their customers. I think that is the best way to say thank you!

Monday, September 03, 2012

Yuuki

I am mustering up a lot of courage or Yuuki these days! I have a book coming out later this month and that means I will be doing a lot of self promotion. 

So here's to Yuuki!

the Japanese word for courage is: å‹‡æ°— (yuuki)

The first character has the meaning 'brave' and the second is 'spirit'. I should think leaving off the second character would be fine unless you were using it in an actual Japanese sentence (in which case you'd likely be representing the word yuuki and so would need both)...

...according to Jim Breen's WWWJDIC å‹‡ (yuu) can stand alone as a noun, meaning "bravery; courage; heroism"...

I started a new FB fan page for my book so if you haven't yet—please go and "like" it!